Category Archives: being alive

A Journey Begins…

Isn’t it pretty cool that no matter how well you think you know someone, you can always find out more when you sit down and talk. T and I had a pretty intimate conversation yesterday about things we’ve never really … Continue reading

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Faking a Smile…

Here’s a checklist I found for depression. My thoughts are italicized.  Things just seem “off” or “wrong.” CHECK You don’t feel hopeful or happy about anything in your life. CHECK…Well, not everything but quite a few things. You’re crying a … Continue reading

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Toes in the Sand…

  Why is the ocean so calming to me? I could sit there from sunup to sundown, and even all through the night. There’s something about the salt air, the warm breeze, the cool sand and the sound of crashing … Continue reading

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Happy Things…

  Things that make me happy… T Sunsets My dogs My daughters Life…breathing, beating heart Autumn leaves Christmas lights Family Bacon Freshly vacuumed carpet The smell of potting soil Fresh cut grass Planting flowers and caring for them Being loved … Continue reading

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The Rose…

                                       The Rose by Bette Midler Some say love, it is a river that drowns the tender reed Some say love, it is a razor that leaves your soul to bleed Some say love, … Continue reading

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My Favorite Time of Day…

I love colorful sunsets. A myriad of colors in every shade beautifully displayed across the sky for my viewing pleasure. No matter where you are, or the season, it can be admired from anywhere. In the Spring and Summer, I … Continue reading

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Five Years From Now…

Five years from now I will be forty nine years old. I will be older, wiser and relaxed in the knowledge that my children are grown, self sufficient and able to support themselves. I’d like to have gotten a grasp … Continue reading

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